Rubia, pelo bueno, ay dios bendiga, blanca…. The number of words to describe one’s whiteness are truly unlimited in the Dominican Republic. Normally, I find nothing but pride in my Latino roots and emphasize the importance of my mestizo blood, but here on the island appearance is what matters, and to the people of my campo I am WHITE. Whiteness embodied on this island comes with a type of privilege that I am not used to nor comfortable with. The amount of comments, words and general favors given because of the color of my skin are astounding. The question then arises, how do we use that privilege to make a difference? Because effective awareness of one’s white privilege is necessary in any context, especially in that of the Dominican Republic.
Living on the border I am not a stranger to tense race relations and a very much racially divided society. However, I wake up daily, aware of the privileges granted to me on this island, in my own country and around the world. Making sure to keep my privilege in check, I question, how can I be the best ally on the island? My steps have been to:
- Talk to fellow volunteers of color whose service is undeniably different than mine.
- Secondly, to remind my community that one’s skin color does not make me or any other “white person” more beautiful.
- And lastly, to remind (especially the girls in my school) that empowerment does not come with lighter skin; empowerment comes through education and with education and passion, anything is achievable.
It’s a role that at times would be easier to accept the privileges than to give into the responsibilities that inherently tie in with being a white American. My community, my region and the country as a whole have very different ideas that do not always align with my attempts at ally-ship and behavior change. Neither do they see the importance of using a type of power that is inherently granted to the lighter or fairer skinned population to better the population as a whole?????.
To fellow volunteers, remember we are guests in this country, we are here to serve our communities but while doing so we have the power to make our voices heard. People want to listen to us, we are new, “Americana” is so big in this country and our direct knowledge of pop culture gives us a unique voice in front of our youth. When something uncontrollable like the color of our skin is giving us a voice, we cannot simply ignore the identifiers that accompanies it. We must emphasize the fact that the color of one’s skin is not a factor in one’s worth. We must stand up and assert ourselves as allies and friends. We cannot allow our privileges to make us content in living in a society in which we are seen to be better. Because we aren’t.
We have our individual cultural identities but for what we are lacking in melanin we must make up for in acceptance, tolerance and overall inclusion. We must use our voices in our communities to teach inclusion and to teach general lessons of individual beauty. We have to work harder to show our communities the beauty that lies in every shade of every person on this island. In doing so, when we return to the USA we can use these lessons/experiences to become BETTER allies in our country where racial divides, hate and separation seem to be ever present.